At the end of life, will you be able to look back and be glad that you enjoyed your relationship. The truth is, no one will live forever, but you want to say at the end that it was a fruitful and joyful time together. If you look back, gladness and joy should fill your heart for a wonderful relationship, and not regret.
God made marriage for you to enjoy it to the full. Build and furnish your relationship with love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, forgiveness and gentleness. Let these be your bricks to use in building.
Rid your marriage of adultery, hatred, idolatry, wrath, selfishness, envy, sorrow and contentions. These are stuff you don’t need in your marriage.
You can choose what you do. The word of God says in Philippians 4:13 you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you.
You can build a joyful and glorious marriage through the anointed One who strengthens you with His anointing. You can consciously decide to build a wonderful marriage if you choose to work at it. Keep building. As you build, opportunities will come for you to pull down what you have built but don’t do it, rather deal with the unpleasant, sort it out and keep building with the bricks.
What you do today will determine tomorrow’s outcome, make today count, build well, you will be glad when tomorrow comes.