Reserved

Imagine yourself in a hall, where you have gone for a meeting, but the place is full to capacity and the only option you seem to have is to lean on the wall, all the seats have been taken up by others. You are tired at the same time this meeting is one you cannot afford to miss, while you are bracing yourself up for the task of having to…

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Seedtime and Harvest

You may have realised that quite a few things you really love are no longer in your relationship. What most people do is to just be in sad for the loss of something so dear to their marriage. Whatever it is you miss in your relationship, it could be joy, friendship, peace, faithfulness etc. The principle of sowing and reaping is key to getting back what you lack. The same…

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Outlast your Challenges

The challenges we face in marriage and relationship can sometimes catch us unprepared. When you are strong and prepared you handle the situation well, in love and with a lot of courage and wisdom. At other times perhaps when you are weak or even in situations where the situation has lingered longer than you thought and your patience and strength starts to be wear out. In order to win your…

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Great Minds

For all who have ever succeeded in solving any problem, the state of their minds usually played a very important part. No one is born with a great mind, they only learn to make great and right choices as they encountered challenges in life. Success comes through strong and joyful minds. Successful people would have to choose not to be discouraged, sad, or overwhelmed by the problems they face. Your…

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Getting Your Hope Back

After waiting for so long and without any relief or victory in sight, it is not unusual to give up hope. Hope is your expectation, your trust, what you are anticipating, looking forward to, and optimistic about. When all these are no longer there relationship becomes dry and a trap. There is only one place to get your hope back, that is from God. God is called the God of…

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Breaking the Cycle of Financial Pressure

In the space of time we have lived, we have come to realise that financial challenge is one thing that is peculiar to all marriages and relationships. You will have to deal with it at one time or the other. You might have also realised that your regular income does not increase anywhere near the rate of inflation. Meaning except you get a very very well paying job you will…

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Breaking the Cycle of Financial Pressure

In the space of time we have lived, we have come to realise that financial challenge is one thing that is peculiar to all marriages and relationships. You will have to deal with it at one time or the other. You might have also realised that your regular income does not increase anywhere near the rate of inflation. Meaning except you get a very very well paying job you will…

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Disagree in Love

Disagreement is something you must learn to manage properly in your relationship. To disagree is to lack harmony, to differ in opinion, to be at variance. Disagreement when approached with the right rules is not bad in itself and on the other hand if handled wrongly can bring pain and regret. Disagreement should not be viewed as a threat, or a personal attack it is simply put a different approach….

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Let Patience Lead You

Patience is a virtue, it is a character strength, it is crucial to the well being and strength of your marriage/relationship. Through patience you will be able to calm quarrels easily, issues that used to get out of hand would no longer leave you both sad and unhappy as you exercise patience. Patience helps you to control yourself, it would help you to restrain your words, thoughts and actions. When…

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Joy and Wisdom

Every marriage and relationship go through difficulties at one time or the other. This is why it is very important you know how to handle them and how not to. The way you handle challenges and the pressures will determine it’s impact and the consequence long after it’s gone. Two things you must be determined and prepared to apply during difficult times is joy and wisdom. Knowing that difficulties and…

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